Thursday, September 05, 2013

A Life Remembered - Maynard Good

Steve's father, Maynard Good, passed away a couple of days after suffering a stroke. We quickly packed our bags and went to Indiana for a little over a week. It was a quick trip between the two worlds we inhabit and made our heads spin (and our bodies wonder whether we were coming or going). But it was a wonderful privilege to be able to spend time with the family and some of our friends to honor Maynard and say good-bye.  Below is a bio written by Steve's brother, Tom, and then a piece that Steve shared at the memorial service.

Maynard L. Good, 85, of Elkhart , died Mon., Aug. 19, 2013 at Elkhart General Hospital .  He was born March 6, 1928 in Elkhart to Jacob H. and Ada (Christophel) Good. He married Anna Ruth Nafziger on Aug. 17, 1952. She survives along with children, Stephen (Rachel) Good of Mozambique, Africa; Marilee (Ron) Diener, Deborah Good, Thomas (Annetta Borntrager) Good all of Goshen, John (Lori) Good of Fayetteville GA; brothers, Willard (Rose) Good of Ft. Scott. KS, Truman (Beverly) Good of Spencer,  TN; sisters, Doris (Kenneth) Shoemaker of Danvers, IL, Melba Miller of Denver, CO; 12 grandchildren; and 1 great-grandchild. He was preceded in death by a son, James Good.

Maynard was a memorable, musical and missional man. He knew a lot of people.  Having grown up in the area and having many early sales and delivery jobs, he was often a point of reference for the rest of the family when meeting new people.  His gift for salesmanship continued after he settled down at Spring Valley Ranch to grow and sell fruit, cider, sweet corn, potatoes and other produce.  He also had a mechanical bent and founded a business fabricating silage bag stuffers and grader boxes.  Most recently, he spent summers at the Blueberry Park selling organic blueberries to the community along with information about their health benefits.

Maynard was born into a family that loved to sing and make music.  One of his first purchases was a guitar that he taught himself to play.  He sang in quartets and choirs when he was younger and was chorister for Prairie Street for many years.  He also led his family in giving programs to area churches.  Table grace was almost always sung at family meals. 

Maynard was deeply involved in the life of the church as a Torch Bearer sponsor and Sunday School teacher,  He also had a deep concern for the unchurched and community.  He was a founder and the first president of Church Community Services. He supported MCC through service time in Puerto Rico in his 20’s and hosted trainees from other countries to live and work on the farm. He promoted the CROP walk for Church World Services.  He initiated a Saturday evening program for area children who often passed the church but never came in.

Maynard was a visionary man of simple faith.  He suffered a major stroke while resting the afternoon the blueberry patch closed for the season and passed peacefully two days later.  He is now with Jesus and we will miss him.  His family thanks you for your support and prayers.
 
 

A Life Remembered - By Steve

 
There is a lot to remember from 58 years of having a dad like Maynard Good.  He was “part chip off the old block” and part “they broke the mould after they were done” kind of guy.  Stepping into his crocs the morning after getting back to Elkhart reminded me that as “dad,” he was always sort of a half size larger than life and no one could ever quite fill his shoes.
Throughout my younger years and even more recently, I was always told, “You look just like your dad.”  While I could see and sense the resemblance, it always struck me with a mixture of pride, wonder and anxiety.  Was I really, “just like” him?  Well, not exactly, God has created each of us uniquely. 

 One of the things I learned late in life about myself is that I am a “learner and communicator.”  I doubt that Dad ever took the “strength finders” test to analyze his personal strengths.  However, as I reflected on what he was like as a person and father, I can now see those two strengths in his life too.  You did not have to know him for long to have him start telling you about something he learned about recently. 
 
Although he grew up in the city, he bolted from its shadow as soon as possible to work on the Ed Miller farm east of town.   He was a product of the “war years” educational system that was low on resources and let its students stay in school only half days as long as they could maintain at least a B average.  His motto would have been like Mark Twain’s who said, “I never let my schooling get in the way of my education.”  As a self employed dad, he taught me most of what I knew about farming and hard work.

He had a love for the land, the soil and the woods.  He loved to work it and feel it become productive under his hand.  To him, farming was not a job, it was a way of life and a lifestyle.  When he first started farming on his own, he once told me that he would wake up before sunrise and just wait for the sun to come up so he could go out and work.  Opportunity energized him and that is how he lived his life. 

He loved trying new things and meeting new people.  There were never any strangers in the room, just people he hadn’t met yet.  Those strengths served him well on his early bread and apple routes and farm markets; selling everything from stocks to specialty farm equipment, even blueberries.  

He was an optimist, visionary and pioneer.  Seldom discouraged, he was always thinking about new ideas and ways of doing things.  If it seemed remotely possible and piqued his interest, he was ready and willing to try it out.  If it didn’t work out, it was not hard for him to find the next thing to start thinking about. 

His love for the Lord, the church and music, coupled with his leadership gifts made him a natural worship leader and encourager of others to sing along.  He taught us kids to sing at the same time we learned to talk and attempted to mold us into a singing Von Trapp family.  He even risked bringing the first guitar into Prairie Street Mennonite, when it was still considered an instrument of the world.
 
Needless to say, he taught and instilled many of these same attributes into all of us as his sons and daughters, each in a different way.  Our lives will always be part of this godly legacy, product of his life and how he lived it.